Episode 0103

And today we have another romantic lesson, kind of romantic.

A little romantic. Um, we got a boyfriend and a girlfriend, and they're apologizing to each other.

Okay, so it's a very common situation and we're going to be talking about love. We're also going to talk about different pet names that are commonly used in English.

But are used with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

So, let's listen to this dialogue for the first time and see what's happening with our couple.

Can we talk?

Sure, honey. We're talking now, aren't we?

You know what I mean.

Yeah, I know.

You know, I think you're awesome.

Honey.

You do?

Come on, put the gun down.

Yeah, I think she really needed to hear that she, right? So I think she really wanted to hear, 'I love you.'

Yeah, that's right. And um, there's some interesting phrases here in this, in this dialogue. And and today we're going to focus mostly on phrases.

So why don't we start with fluency builder?

Okay, on Fluency Builder today, we are going to take a look at some of these phrases.

And the first one is very important and very different.

So obviously this dialogue is about love, and we heard two different ways that this word is used. And the first one is 'to love someone.'

Right, so he said, 'I love you.'

Yeah, 'I love you.'

We all pretty much understand what that means.

Right. But they also mentioned 'to be in love with someone.'

Okay, so he said, 'I am in love with you.'

'I'm in love with you.'

In love.

Okay, so what's the difference between 'to love' and 'to be in love'?

To be in love with someone means that you have these strong romantic feelings towards somebody.

That's right. So, um, you can only be in love with your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your husband, or your wife.

So you can love your parents, you can love your family, but you can't be in love with them. You can only be in love with your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife.

That's right.

Okay.

So, moving on to the next phrase. Now, the girl asked her boyfriend, 'Can we talk?'

Can we talk?

Can we talk?

This is a very simple sentence.

Right, we know the meaning, right?

But why does she say, 'Can we talk?'

Okay, so you use this when you want to start a conversation about something serious.

Okay, so if you wanted to talk to me about my new shirt.

Exactly, right?

It has to be serious. It has to be serious.

So, usually if somebody says, 'Hey, can we talk?' it means that there's going to be a serious topic.

It's going to be probably bad news.

Maybe bad news. So, 'Can we talk?' So if your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you this, well, it's not a good sign.

That's right.

All right. And the last phrase that we have on fluency builder: 'You know what I mean?'

'You know what I mean?'

You know what I mean.

You know what I mean.

All right, so again, this phrase is very simple to understand, right?

That's right.

So, you know what I'm talking about.

You you understand me.

But the interesting thing is that we can also make it a question.

And it's all about the change in tone.

Okay, so with this in mind, let's listen to two examples of the same phrase, but with different tones, and you try to see which one is the question.

I'm tired of doing nothing all day here at home. You know what I mean?

Come on, Charles, you know what I mean when I say that I don't like your friends?

That's right. 'You know what I mean?'

Right. So basically, you're asking the person if they understand your idea or they understand what you're talking about.

So maybe you can say, the professor wasn't very clear on his instructions, so how was I supposed to do the homework? You know what I mean?

So you're asking me to confirm that I understand you.

My idea. You understand what I'm saying.

Yeah. Okay, and if it was a statement, I might say, 'Hey, I don't like going to your mom's house.'

So I would say, what? What what do you mean? Why?

You know what I mean.

Right. So I perfectly understand or know the reasons why you don't like going to my mom's house.

Like I don't have to tell you. You know what I mean.

All right, very good. So, 'You know what I mean?' Great. So we've taken a look at these four phrases, they're very simple, but the way that you use them gives them different meanings.

That's right.

All right, so let's listen to our dialogue for the second time. Let's slow it down a little bit, and then we'll come back and look at some more phrases.

Can we talk?

Sure, honey. We're talking now, aren't we?

You know what I mean.

Yeah, I know.

You know, I think you're awesome.

Honey.

You do?

Come on, put the gun down.

Okay, so now it's time for us to take a look at some more phrases, but this time we're going to look at them in 'putting it together.'

Okay, we're going to see how we can use these phrases in a few different situations.

So the girl wanted to talk to her boyfriend because she wanted to know, 'Where this relationship is going?'

Right. 'Where is this relationship going?'

'Where is this relationship going?'

So, she wants to know what's going to happen or what's what's the future? What's the future of this relationship? Are we going to get married or we just what what's happening?

Yeah. So why don't we listen to some examples with different nouns and how we can use this phrase?

Okay, so again, this phrase is just asking about the future of something.

Right. So where the future of this movie, where is this movie going? Yeah, what's happening? Right. What what's gonna happen? Or your career, etcetera.

Yeah. Okay, and and so the girl, um, you know, she was talking a little bit about her feelings, and she said, 'Maybe it's just time we...'

Okay, so this phrase isn't complete yet. We need to finish it. But she is basically saying maybe we should do this. How can we finish the phrase?

All right, so maybe so she could say, 'Maybe it's just time we break up.'

Or even, 'Maybe it's time we go home.'

Okay, so it's getting late, let's go home. Maybe it's time we go home.

So this is how we can finish this phrase. And what about our last phrase?

So she also said, 'We've had our laughs.'

Okay, so that means we've had our good times.

Yep. But we can change this to 'we've had our ups and downs.'

Okay, or we've had our moments.

Right? So that means we've had our good moments and our bad moments.

That's right. Or 'we've had our issues.'

Okay, so that means we've had some problems. We've had some difficulties.

Or even 'we've had our moments.'

Okay, so that means we've had special times, special occasions that we will always remember.

That's right.

Okay.

So a really so three really useful structures that you can, uh, change the words a little bit to slightly change the meaning.

Okay. So it's time for us to listen to our dialogue for the last time. Now we're ready to understand everything. And then we'll come back and give you some examples of pet names in English.

Can we talk?

Sure, honey. We're talking now, aren't we?

You know what I mean.

Yeah, I know.

You know, I think you're awesome.

Honey.

You do?

Come on, put the gun down.

All right, well, Marco, you mentioned this word 'pet names.' Um, and what exactly is that?

All right, so pet names aren't names for your dogs or your cats, right? They are those sweet names that you would call your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Okay, so like 'baby.'

Okay, in our dialogue we heard 'baby.' Yep, right? So we're not talking about a little a little child. A little child, no. This is usually how you would call maybe your girlfriend or boyfriend, 'baby.'

Or 'honey.'

'Honey,' right? 'Hey, honey' or 'Honey, I'm home.'

But we also have other ones like 'sweetheart.'

Or 'darling.'

'Darling.' Yeah. Or what about 'sweetie?'

Mhm. Or 'cutie.'

'Cutie.' Oh.

Okay, or 'honey bunny.'

Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. You also have 'sweetie pie.'

Yep. Yeah.

And some some of them will will make some up, right? Maybe they'll call their their boyfriend, um, 'Pooh Bear.'

Oh yeah. Yeah. Like, you know, like Winnie the Pooh, 'Pooh Bear.'

I heard 'dumpling' is a common one.

Also, it could be, you can make up your own phrase. You can make up your own pet names, right?

Yeah. So I want to hear from our listeners. Are there any common pet names in your language?

I know that in Spanish, we sometimes call the we we can sometimes call our girlfriend 'Gorda,' which actually means fat, but it's not in a bad way. It's it's a sweet way of of calling your your girlfriend.

Yeah, so some of them if you translate, you wouldn't really use in English, but let us know, translate from your language or other ones that you've heard maybe in movies or talk shows and come to our website, EnglishPod.com.

Okay, until next time.

The English Pod Audio Review.

Listen to the meaning, then say the vocabulary word.

End a relationship with someone.

Dump someone.

Hurt someone's feelings very badly. Hurt someone emotionally.

Break someone's heart.

Honest emotional talk.

A heart-to-heart.

Former boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.

Ex.

A person who you are in a long-term relationship with.

Partner.

Phrase used if one must talk about serious things.

Can we talk?

What stage this relationship is in.

Where this relationship is going.

Feel strong romantic affection for someone.

In love with.

Amazing, great.

Awesome.

We have experienced our happy days.

We have had our laughs.

Don't like.

Don't appreciate.

Have strong affection to someone.

Love.

Perhaps it is time for us to do something.

Maybe it is time that we.

Let's try that faster.

End a relationship with someone.

Dump someone.

We have experienced our happy days.

We have had our laughs.

Former boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife.

Ex.

Phrase used if one must talk about serious things.

Can we talk?

Have strong affection to someone.

Love.

Amazing, great.

Awesome.

Feel strong romantic affection for someone.

In love with.

What stage this relationship is in.

Where this relationship is going.

A person who you are in a long-term relationship with.

Partner.

Honest emotional talk.

A heart-to-heart.

Don't like.

Don't appreciate.

Perhaps it is time for us to do something.

Maybe it is time that we.

Hurt someone's feelings very badly. Hurt someone emotionally.

Break someone's heart.

Now say the word and hear it in a sentence.

Can we talk?

I've got something really important to tell you. Can we talk?

Can we talk?

Can we talk?

Can we talk? I need your help with something.

Where this relationship is going.

Where this relationship is going.

Where is this movie going? I don't understand what's happening.

Where this relationship is going.

We have had our laughs.

We have had our laughs.

She has her moments, but for the most part, she's a really nice girl.

We have had our laughs.

You had your fun. Now it's time to go to sleep.

Maybe it is time that we.

It's 2 o'clock in the afternoon. Maybe it's time we have some lunch?

Maybe it is time that we.

If you're not happy at your job, maybe it's just time for you to quit.

Maybe it is time that we.