Episode 0147

Hello everyone and welcome back to another lesson here at EnglishPod. My name is Marco.

And my name is Catherine and today, Marco, you and I are talking about movies, right?

We're talking a little bit about movies, but mostly we're having a big argument.

Okay, I kind of like arguments. Lots of great words and phrases for you to learn here in English. Uh, but we've got an upper intermediate level lesson with uh some people who are not getting along very well, so.

It's a couple, a guy and a girl, and uh they're having a fight as couples do. So we're going to be learning a lot of the different language that they are using in this very heated debate. Uh, so let's listen to this dialogue for the first time and then we'll be right back.

Fine.

I think the guy was exaggerating a little bit, what do you think?

I think they were both exaggerating, you know, by the end of an argument, both people are saying things that maybe they don't mean.

I think we'll talk a little bit more about this uh towards the end of the show, but now why don't we take a look at language takeaway.

All right, on language takeaway today, we have four words and the first one that you probably saw in the very first sentence is a chick flick.

Chick flick. So first of all, the word chick means a woman, it's slang, and it's not very nice.

It's not very nice. No. Well, I mean, between guys you would use it like, oh, this chick or that chick, but you wouldn't really walk up to a girl and call her a chick, right?

No, you wouldn't say, hey, chick, what's up? That's not not not something you want to say. So, chick is a a slang word for a girl or a woman and a chick flick is a girl's movie.

So a flick is a movie, another slang word.

Exactly. So this is the slang phrase, for flick. So, hey, Marco, what flicks are showing at the movie theater?

Mhm. All right. Yeah. So movies. So and a chick flick is usually a romantic movie, a drama, something that's very um

Like Beaches.

Beaches?

Beaches is a chick flick. I don't know if you've ever seen that.

I've never seen that.

Um also, he's just not that into you is one of those new chick flicks.

Or like How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days.

Yeah, how yeah, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Dates or the Devil Wears Prada.

Bride Wars.

Bride Wars. Wow, lots of chick flicks.

I've actually never seen any one of these except How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. Actually only seen that one.

All right, so, chick flick is a girl's or woman's movie. Uh and uh next up we have a word sarcastic. We're talking about sarcastic jokes.

So, sarcastic jokes or somebody being sarcastic.

So what would sarcasm sound like?

All right, so, it's not really what you're saying, it's kind of how you're saying it.

Right, so it's kind of like by saying, he's really funny. You're saying, yeah, he's a funny guy. But if I say, uh, he's really funny.

I'm saying, he's not funny, he's he's being mean or.

Yeah, he's a jerk.

Sarcasm is kind of one of those things that it's a little bit difficult to learn how to do or to actually get it right, uh especially in English, right?

Exactly, that's the way it goes.

So, oh yeah, you're amazing. You should go to you you went to sarcasm school.

Uh my parents.

You can be really mean, Catherine.

Sorry, just kidding.

All right, so, uh apart from being sarcastic, you can criticize someone.

All right.

Sorry, I'll stop.

All right, so critical to criticize someone is to um to complain about them or to say that the things that they do are not very good.

So you can criticize a person or a movie.

Yeah, so this movie wasn't very good. It wasn't funny. The actors were bad. It was really long. These are criticisms.

Criticisms. All right. Well, and then moving on, the girl was finally tired of the guy and his complaints and she said, he's unbearable.

Gosh, you're unbearable. So, the root of this word is to be able to like to stand something, to bear it. And so if you're unbearable, uh something is unbearable, you just can't stand it.

All right, so you're tired of it, you can't stand it.

She's she thinks he's so unbearable. She makes him get out of the car.

And she leaves.

Yeah, she says you can walk home.

All right, so that's an unbearable person, right?

Mhm.

Okay, so uh we took a look at those four main words here in our dialogue. Uh let's move on now to some of the phrases that we found in fluency builder.

This first one's a common one especially when we talk about women and men and the relationship between women and men and we say about men that maybe they should be more in touch with their feelings or their feminine side.

Okay, so if you're saying to be more in touch with your feminine side, what exactly are you saying?

It's a good question. Well, what you're saying is that you want to be able to express your feelings more or you want to be able to understand more about uh your your feminine side or something like this. So, to be in touch with is is more about yourself. It's about self-reflection and self-understanding. So, so uh you could say, I'm a very serious person, but I want to make some changes in my life, so I'm trying to be more in touch with my inner child.

your inner child.

All right, so to be in touch with and it's usually related to feelings, to something intangible, right?

Or to behavior.

To behavior.

All right. Moving on, now a heated uh phrase, a one night stand.

All right, so a one night stand is a casual and very quick temporal um encounter that's usually a sexual encounter.

It's romantic, right? So it can be between um two different people, they meet each other one night, um they have a relationship for one night only and then they never see each other again. So it's uh it's casual.

It's casual, very good.

So yeah, you would see this, you see this a lot in shows like, you know, Sex and the City and all that stuff.

Yeah, they have a lot of one night stands in that show.

All right, so a one night stand. And well, related to this, uh the girl was criticizing his friends and she said they're no saints.

Okay, so we could say this in many different ways. He's no saint. She's no saint or I'm no saint. You're no saint.

You're no saint.

So a saint is a good person. It's uh it's a word that we use in religion to say someone who's like Mother Teresa or someone who's just really good and kind and.

Doesn't commit any sins.

Exactly. And so to say I'm no saint is to say, well, I do bad things or I say bad things. I'm not perfect, okay? So he or they, they're no saints. They do bad stuff too.

Yeah, very good. So that's the way that you would use he's no saint, they're no saints. Um all right, so I think now we should listen to our dialogue for the last time and we'll be right back.

Fine.

All right, so, um Catherine, is this an argument that you would say is a typical among couples? Or maybe people that are probably about to break up, right?

Uh not couples that are happy, I would say, but uh yeah, you definitely have people who are, well, I guess it's kind of the battle of the sexes, right? You have people who um are different genders and so they don't always understand each other. You know, you want to have your girlfriends as a girl and your girlfriends behave and talk in a certain way together. And guys do the same thing, but with their friends. And so sometimes you have these clashes, these interactions that are negative and, you know, when people are upset with each other, they say mean things.

And especially, I think in this case, they don't really like each other's friends.

Mmm, exactly.

And that's a kind of a of a common thing, like uh a guy doesn't like his uh his girlfriend's friends because maybe they gossip too much or something like that. And the same thing with the girls, right? Because a guy's friends maybe drink too much.

Drink too much, play too many card games.

They're single.

So I think a lot of times these these problems also have to do with the fact that like when a girl is with her girlfriends, she maybe acts differently. Or with when a guy is with his guy friends. And so that's weird sometimes for the relationship because you see your your partner acting differently with other people. So.

Do you like your boyfriend or girlfriend's friends? Do you get in fights about this kind of stuff?

Or you know what, the in-laws.

Ooh, that's a whole another situation.

That's a whole another situation. Absolutely.

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Bye.

The English Pod audio review.

Listen to the meaning, then say the vocabulary word.

A film that appeals to women.

Chick flick.

The use of words to show irritation.

Sarcastic.

To be in close contact with.

In touch with.

A random and temporary romantic encounter.

One night stand.

To express disapproval.

Criticize.

Too bad to be accepted or endured.

Unbearable.

Let's try that faster.

To be in close contact with.

In touch with.

To express disapproval.

Criticize.

A film that appeals to women.

Chick flick.

The use of words to show irritation.

Sarcastic.

A random and temporary romantic encounter.

One night stand.

Too bad to be accepted or endured.

Unbearable.

Now say the word and hear it in a sentence.

Chick flick.

My girlfriend dragged me to go see another chick flick.

Chick flick.

This channel only shows chick flicks.

Chick flick.

The chick flick genre enjoyed great success a few years ago.

Sarcastic.

Sarcastic.

Thank you for the wonderful service, the customer said sarcastically.

Sarcastic.

Many performers use sarcasm for a comedic effect.

In touch with.

Let's see this chick flick and get in touch with our feminine side.

In touch with.

He's just more in touch with his feelings, but he's not gay.

In touch with.

Please remember to write and stay in touch.

Unbearable.

Unbearable.

Unbearable.